Vanity or Flair

For vanity’s sake, she doesn’t mind if she is a hefty spring roll. She wears those dresses so tight like there is no air left inside her body. She (dis)graces the pathway like those pompous grimy cats adorned with blisters and grease. She feels like everybody cherishes how she looks.

While another ‘she’ paces like a bathing swan in a lake full of grace and unmindful of how she looks. She has this flair she carries with her as noticeable as the sun sets its elegant rays across the earth. She is truly a wonderful but simple masterpiece of nature.
How would you choose to be one? Should you be a vain woman or an elegant female? It is hard work though. Both choices are. To be vain is to be a woman ‘working’ to be pleasing to the other’s eyes. To be elegant is to be a woman of discipline.
Vanity is not exclusive for women, or flair, too. Men as big as stocky rocks also work their way out to obtain what they think are desirable for others especially for women. But there are also men who wanted to just carry the flair like handy wallets, bags and portfolios.
Vanity or flair – choose!

Vanity or Flair

For vanity’s sake, she doesn’t mind if she is a hefty spring roll. She wears those dresses so tight like there is no air left inside her body. She (dis)graces the pathway like those pompous grimy cats adorned with blisters and grease. She feels like everybody cherishes how she looks.

While another ‘she’ paces like a bathing swan in a lake full of grace and unmindful of how she looks. She has this flair she carries with her as noticeable as the sun sets its elegant rays across the earth. She is truly a wonderful but simple masterpiece of nature.

How would you choose to be one? Should you be a vain woman or an elegant female? It is hard work though. Both choices are. To be vain is to be a woman ‘working’ to be pleasing to the other’s eyes. To be elegant is to be a woman of discipline.

Vanity is not exclusive for women, or flair, too. Men as big as stocky rocks also work their way out to obtain what they think are desirable for others especially for women. But there are also men who wanted to just carry the flair like handy wallets, bags and portfolios.

Vanity or flair – choose!

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Rejection? The Pleasure is Mine

More often we feel bitter if we are rejected directly or indirectly. It seems that we are lacking so people do not appreciate us or accept us. For me, when rejected, the pleasure is mine. Come to think of it, not my loss, but theirs. And it is not pride.

Before, the impact of rejection really eats me up. It makes me gloomy, makes me unimportant, and makes me unwanted. It was just like I am deficient. It was like I am lesser than anybody and do not have anything better to prove about myself.

The years have molded me to a better person. I have learned to appreciate the fact that not everybody can appreciate me. It is true I cannot please everybody. It was a graceful acceptance of reality. And I welcomed rejection with a smile and even with a smirk.

People have reasons. I have my own reasons. I also reject people I do not like, directly and indirectly. We are all entitled to our own opinions. So why will we brood when rejected? Face it and say – “The pleasure is mine.”

Rejection? The Pleasure is Mine

More often we feel bitter if we are rejected directly or indirectly. It seems that we are lacking so people do not appreciate us or accept us. For me, when rejected, the pleasure is mine. Come to think of it, not my loss, but theirs. And it is not pride.

Before, the impact of rejection really eats me up. It makes me gloomy, makes me unimportant, and makes me unwanted. It was just like I am deficient. It was like I am lesser than anybody and do not have anything better to prove about myself.

The years have molded me to a better person. I have learned to appreciate the fact that not everybody can appreciate me. It is true I cannot please everybody. It was a graceful acceptance of reality. And I welcomed rejection with a smile and even with a smirk.

People have reasons. I have my own reasons. I also reject people I do not like, directly and indirectly. We are all entitled to our own opinions. So why will we brood when rejected? Face it and say – “The pleasure is mine.”

Rejection? The Pleasure is Mine

More often we feel bitter if we are rejected directly or indirectly. It seems that we are lacking so people do not appreciate us or accept us. For me, when rejected, the pleasure is mine. Come to think of it, not my loss, but theirs. And it is not pride.Before, the impact of rejection really eats me up. It makes me gloomy, makes me unimportant, and makes me unwanted. It was just like I am deficient. It was like I am lesser than anybody and do not have anything better to prove about myself.

The years have molded me to a better person. I have learned to appreciate the fact that not everybody can appreciate me. It is true I cannot please everybody. It was a graceful acceptance of reality. And I welcomed rejection with a smile and even with a smirk.

People have reasons. I have my own reasons. I also reject people I do not like, directly and indirectly. We are all entitled to our own opinions. So why will we brood when rejected? Face it and say – “The pleasure is mine.”

The Fertility of the Mind is More than Enough?

The post of a fellow blogger reminded me of a discussion one time after a conduct of an internal quality audit to a section of the Technical Services Department. The discussion started from the question I directed to a group of 3 auditors and 2 auditees – why do men seek pleasure outside marriage? The men, with only me as a woman, blurted out reasons. Some claimed that they were not the ones who seek, they were the ones sought. One of the fellows admittedly explained that eating the same kind of food makes the palate numb. Imagine comparing their partners to some kind of food! But needless to say, most men are really born promiscuous.

The discussion lead to my mentioning of an email sent to me with a guy cutting off his penis. The succession of the images runs as follows:
1. the man holding his penis
2. the penis being tied by 2 rubber bands (wider than the usual rubber band that I know)
3. the man cutting the penis with a cutter while holding a something like a suction holding the glans (which is the head of the penis)
4. the man pulling the glans from the whole body of the penis (2 pics)
5. the glans cut off from the entire body of the penis (2 pics)
I was not certain if the images did not come from a real act of cutting the penis nor that it was just another set of images to give the receivers something to loathe about. What I was trying to find out from the guys if that would cause impotence. You know, with the glans out, which is the one of the most sensitive part of the male organ, (one of which is the corona), how could the genital reach erection?

The simple question lead to some doubtful answers and one of which was “The fertility of the mind is more than enough.” The guy who uttered this insisted that the penis would still erect even without the glans. He explained that imagination or what goes on inside the mind of a man leads the organ to tumescence. I doubted that explanation but had no means to prove otherwise. No possibility of a volunteer to have his ‘precious one’ be cut off. LOL.
Until recently, I read that with causes of impotence like psychological problems and side effects of drugs come the greatest number of cases. But this is just secondary impotence. It was mentioned that primary impotence is caused when the genitals are anatomically faulty. This means that the guy who cut off his penis will probably be impotent after doing it. The anatomical structure of the genital is definitely important. This is why I was doubtful when that guy stated that ‘the fertility of the mind is more than enough.” If the mind is fertile and the vehicle to which its messages will be transported is dysfunctional, how could the upshot be possible?

The Fertility of the Mind is More than Enough?

The post of a fellow blogger reminded me of a discussion one time after a conduct of an internal quality audit to a section of the Technical Services Department. The discussion started from the question I directed to a group of 3 auditors and 2 auditees – why do men seek pleasure outside marriage? The men, with only me as a woman, blurted out reasons. Some claimed that they were not the ones who seek, they were the ones sought. One of the fellows admittedly explained that eating the same kind of food makes the palate numb. Imagine comparing their partners to some kind of food! But needless to say, most men are really born promiscuous.

The discussion lead to my mentioning of an email sent to me with a guy cutting off his penis. The succession of the images runs as follows:
1. the man holding his penis
2. the penis being tied by 2 rubber bands (wider than the usual rubber band that I know)
3. the man cutting the penis with a cutter while holding a something like a suction holding the glans (which is the head of the penis)
4. the man pulling the glans from the whole body of the penis (2 pics)
5. the glans cut off from the entire body of the penis (2 pics)
I was not certain if the images did not come from a real act of cutting the penis nor that it was just another set of images to give the receivers something to loathe about. What I was trying to find out from the guys if that would cause impotence. You know, with the glans out, which is the one of the most sensitive part of the male organ, (one of which is the corona), how could the genital reach erection?

The simple question lead to some doubtful answers and one of which was “The fertility of the mind is more than enough.” The guy who uttered this insisted that the penis would still erect even without the glans. He explained that imagination or what goes on inside the mind of a man leads the organ to tumescence. I doubted that explanation but had no means to prove otherwise. No possibility of a volunteer to have his ‘precious one’ be cut off. LOL.
Until recently, I read that with causes of impotence like psychological problems and side effects of drugs come the greatest number of cases. But this is just secondary impotence. It was mentioned that primary impotence is caused when the genitals are anatomically faulty. This means that the guy who cut off his penis will probably be impotent after doing it. The anatomical structure of the genital is definitely important. This is why I was doubtful when that guy stated that ‘the fertility of the mind is more than enough.” If the mind is fertile and the vehicle to which its messages will be transported is dysfunctional, how could the upshot be possible?

The Fertility of the Mind is More than Enough?

The post of a fellow blogger reminded me of a discussion one time after a conduct of an internal quality audit to a section of the Technical Services Department. The discussion started from the question I directed to a group of 3 auditors and 2 auditees – why do men seek pleasure outside marriage? The men, with only me as a woman, blurted out reasons. Some claimed that they were not the ones who seek, they were the ones sought. One of the fellows admittedly explained that eating the same kind of food makes the palate numb. Imagine comparing their partners to some kind of food! But needless to say, most men are really born promiscuous.

The discussion lead to my mentioning of an email sent to me with a guy cutting off his penis. The succession of the images runs as follows:

1. the man holding his penis
2. the penis being tied by 2 rubber bands (wider than the usual rubber band that I know)
3. the man cutting the penis with a cutter while holding a something like a suction holding the glans (which is the head of the penis)
4. the man pulling the glans from the whole body of the penis (2 pics)
5. the glans cut off from the entire body of the penis (2 pics)

I was not certain if the images did not come from a real act of cutting the penis nor that it was just another set of images to give the receivers something to loathe about. What I was trying to find out from the guys if that would cause impotence. You know, with the glans out, which is the one of the most sensitive part of the male organ, (one of which is the corona), how could the genital reach erection?

The simple question lead to some doubtful answers and one of which was “The fertility of the mind is more than enough.” The guy who uttered this insisted that the penis would still erect even without the glans. He explained that imagination or what goes on inside the mind of a man leads the organ to tumescence. I doubted that explanation but had no means to prove otherwise. No possibility of a volunteer to have his ‘precious one’ be cut off. LOL.

Until recently, I read that with causes of impotence like psychological problems and side effects of drugs come the greatest number of cases. But this is just secondary impotence. It was mentioned that primary impotence is caused when the genitals are anatomically faulty. This means that the guy who cut off his penis will probably be impotent after doing it. The anatomical structure of the genital is definitely important. This is why I was doubtful when that guy stated that ‘the fertility of the mind is more than enough.” If the mind is fertile and the vehicle to which its messages will be transported is dysfunctional, how could the upshot be possible?

JS PROM, Manila Hotel, February 18, 2005

http://yos-vibe.blogspot.com/
It cost me P500 pesos for her hair and make-up for the Junior-Senior Promenade. My hubby remarked that I handed over the service fee without hesitation. I told him it was cheaper than the other service fee from renowned parlors. The result was satisfactory and it gave my daughter a look older than her age.

She is a pretty lady. Her long slender body graced the lobby of the Manila Hotel. There are a lot of pretty girls in that event, too. But for me, Kay is one of the prettiest. Well… parents are always fan-atics of their own siblings. Who would disagree with me anyway? That day, my daughter really shone and people (and boys) stared and admired her. What a nice feeling to be a proud parent!

My daughter is truly a wow. She is a strong-willed (or stubborn? ha ha ha) little lady, very independent and a leader. I was asking myself: Is this really true? That my daughter is growing up and soon to leave us? (Oh, I hope not too soon…) She is only 15.

She had fun the whole of the event, danced with friends a lot and enjoyed the camaraderie of her peers. Though there are disgusting people in that event according to her, she managed to obtain the best. We fetched her at past 11:00 pm. The event was not off till 12:00 pm so we had to wait. We were able to leave past 12:00 midnight then went home. Kay rested at the backseat so tired and sleepy… and still a beautiful baby – to my eyes.

JS PROM, Manila Hotel, February 18, 2005

http://yos-vibe.blogspot.com/
It cost me P500 pesos for her hair and make-up for the Junior-Senior Promenade. My hubby remarked that I handed over the service fee without hesitation. I told him it was cheaper than the other service fee from renowned parlors. The result was satisfactory and it gave my daughter a look older than her age.

She is a pretty lady. Her long slender body graced the lobby of the Manila Hotel. There are a lot of pretty girls in that event, too. But for me, Kay is one of the prettiest. Well… parents are always fan-atics of their own siblings. Who would disagree with me anyway? That day, my daughter really shone and people (and boys) stared and admired her. What a nice feeling to be a proud parent!

My daughter is truly a wow. She is a strong-willed (or stubborn? ha ha ha) little lady, very independent and a leader. I was asking myself: Is this really true? That my daughter is growing up and soon to leave us? (Oh, I hope not too soon…) She is only 15.

She had fun the whole of the event, danced with friends a lot and enjoyed the camaraderie of her peers. Though there are disgusting people in that event according to her, she managed to obtain the best. We fetched her at past 11:00 pm. The event was not off till 12:00 pm so we had to wait. We were able to leave past 12:00 midnight then went home. Kay rested at the backseat so tired and sleepy… and still a beautiful baby – to my eyes.

JS PROM, Manila Hotel, February 18, 2005

http://yos-vibe.blogspot.com/
It cost me P500 pesos for her hair and make-up for the Junior-Senior Promenade. My hubby remarked that I handed over the service fee without hesitation. I told him it was cheaper than the other service fee from renowned parlors. The result was satisfactory and it gave my daughter a look older than her age.

She is a pretty lady. Her long slender body graced the lobby of the Manila Hotel. There are a lot of pretty girls in that event, too. But for me, Kay is one of the prettiest. Well… parents are always fan-atics of their own siblings. Who would disagree with me anyway? That day, my daughter really shone and people (and boys) stared and admired her. What a nice feeling to be a proud parent!

My daughter is truly a wow. She is a strong-willed (or stubborn? ha ha ha) little lady, very independent and a leader. I was asking myself: Is this really true? That my daughter is growing up and soon to leave us? (Oh, I hope not too soon…) She is only 15.

She had fun the whole of the event, danced with friends a lot and enjoyed the camaraderie of her peers. Though there are disgusting people in that event according to her, she managed to obtain the best. We fetched her at past 11:00 pm. The event was not off till 12:00 pm so we had to wait. We were able to leave past 12:00 midnight then went home. Kay rested at the backseat so tired and sleepy… and still a beautiful baby – to my eyes.

That Was the Past, Here is the Future

A girl, about 12 or 13, struggles to mingle with her teenage classmates in a public school in Quezon City. She is lost and lonely so to say. Possessing only an intelligent mind, she is trying to be accepted. The girls in the class are not interested at all of the intellect. She is nobody still being a dweller in the slum areas of that city.

The girl’s blue skirt uniform felt of starch after being bleached. The hair is simply done, no braids, not shampooed so that they form into clusters of strands of hair but combed. The whole poise, if it can be labeled as poise, set out of a long neck, very thin arms and legs, melancholic eyes and lips, dry and pale lips, and a not so very good smell. She tries to be neat, and she believes she is neat, actually not mindful of the indifference and the stabbing stares or the hidden pouts.

The girl is aware that everybody in the school stares, not because of attraction, of regard, or of appreciation. But she needs to survive. She excels in the class almost equivalent to the rank one or maybe even brilliant than the rank one in the class. Discrimination is there. Tuition fee and extra other fees payment delays are known. She does not care. She needs to survive. She is surviving and obtaining happiness from the frequent successes she makes in the competitions and the ranking in the academics.

Two decades and more, a girl of about the same age made her way to popularity in a private school in another city. Acclaimed by the students and teachers, she is always on the go. She seems to be very happy. She is not trying hard to be known. She is known almost by everybody in school. Everybody is interested to be her friend. Every body seems to want to ride in her bandwagon. She belongs to a good family, which is living just a mediocre life. She is not deprived and is always supported towards her dreams.

The girl’s white uniform gives her radiance very nice to behold. She smells very sweet, very fresh. She stands taller, looks prettier, moves smarter and talks more confident. She is a knockout so to say.

The girl appreciates the attention being given to her and accepts the fact that a lot is depending on her in any school project or activity. It is a difficult task for her but she needs to survive. She still belongs to the top of her class. There are a lot of responsibilities to attend to. She is busier than before. She is spent but happy. She is an achiever.

Dreams come true, do they?

The past holds no bearing in the future. It cannot stop any one from dreaming. We make out our lives to have a good conclusion. The primitive or the obsolete patches of life are there to support not to influence. They contribute to the strength and the beauty of our present horizon.

That Was the Past, Here is the Future

A girl, about 12 or 13, struggles to mingle with her teenage classmates in a public school in Quezon City. She is lost and lonely so to say. Possessing only an intelligent mind, she is trying to be accepted. The girls in the class are not interested at all of the intellect. She is nobody still being a dweller in the slum areas of that city.

The girl’s blue skirt uniform felt of starch after being bleached. The hair is simply done, no braids, not shampooed so that they form into clusters of strands of hair but combed. The whole poise, if it can be labeled as poise, set out of a long neck, very thin arms and legs, melancholic eyes and lips, dry and pale lips, and a not so very good smell. She tries to be neat, and she believes she is neat, actually not mindful of the indifference and the stabbing stares or the hidden pouts.

The girl is aware that everybody in the school stares, not because of attraction, of regard, or of appreciation. But she needs to survive. She excels in the class almost equivalent to the rank one or maybe even brilliant than the rank one in the class. Discrimination is there. Tuition fee and extra other fees payment delays are known. She does not care. She needs to survive. She is surviving and obtaining happiness from the frequent successes she makes in the competitions and the ranking in the academics.

Two decades and more, a girl of about the same age made her way to popularity in a private school in another city. Acclaimed by the students and teachers, she is always on the go. She seems to be very happy. She is not trying hard to be known. She is known almost by everybody in school. Everybody is interested to be her friend. Every body seems to want to ride in her bandwagon. She belongs to a good family, which is living just a mediocre life. She is not deprived and is always supported towards her dreams.

The girl’s white uniform gives her radiance very nice to behold. She smells very sweet, very fresh. She stands taller, looks prettier, moves smarter and talks more confident. She is a knockout so to say.

The girl appreciates the attention being given to her and accepts the fact that a lot is depending on her in any school project or activity. It is a difficult task for her but she needs to survive. She still belongs to the top of her class. There are a lot of responsibilities to attend to. She is busier than before. She is spent but happy. She is an achiever.

Dreams come true, do they?

The past holds no bearing in the future. It cannot stop any one from dreaming. We make out our lives to have a good conclusion. The primitive or the obsolete patches of life are there to support not to influence. They contribute to the strength and the beauty of our present horizon.

That Was the Past, Here is the Future

A girl, about 12 or 13, struggles to mingle with her teenage classmates in a public school in Quezon City. She is lost and lonely so to say. Possessing only an intelligent mind, she is trying to be accepted. The girls in the class are not interested at all of the intellect. She is nobody still being a dweller in the slum areas of that city.The girl’s blue skirt uniform felt of starch after being bleached. The hair is simply done, no braids, not shampooed so that they form into clusters of strands of hair but combed. The whole poise, if it can be labeled as poise, set out of a long neck, very thin arms and legs, melancholic eyes and lips, dry and pale lips, and a not so very good smell. She tries to be neat, and she believes she is neat, actually not mindful of the indifference and the stabbing stares or the hidden pouts.

The girl is aware that everybody in the school stares, not because of attraction, of regard, or of appreciation. But she needs to survive. She excels in the class almost equivalent to the rank one or maybe even brilliant than the rank one in the class. Discrimination is there. Tuition fee and extra other fees payment delays are known. She does not care. She needs to survive. She is surviving and obtaining happiness from the frequent successes she makes in the competitions and the ranking in the academics.

Two decades and more, a girl of about the same age made her way to popularity in a private school in another city. Acclaimed by the students and teachers, she is always on the go. She seems to be very happy. She is not trying hard to be known. She is known almost by everybody in school. Everybody is interested to be her friend. Every body seems to want to ride in her bandwagon. She belongs to a good family, which is living just a mediocre life. She is not deprived and is always supported towards her dreams.

The girl’s white uniform gives her radiance very nice to behold. She smells very sweet, very fresh. She stands taller, looks prettier, moves smarter and talks more confident. She is a knockout so to say.

The girl appreciates the attention being given to her and accepts the fact that a lot is depending on her in any school project or activity. It is a difficult task for her but she needs to survive. She still belongs to the top of her class. There are a lot of responsibilities to attend to. She is busier than before. She is spent but happy. She is an achiever.

Dreams come true, do they?

The past holds no bearing in the future. It cannot stop any one from dreaming. We make out our lives to have a good conclusion. The primitive or the obsolete patches of life are there to support not to influence. They contribute to the strength and the beauty of our present horizon.

The Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me

Realization… that is the best thing that ever happened to me. Who would treat me like a queen – wake up in the early morning to tend to the needs of my kids and let me sleep till it is time to get up for work; prepare tasty food for dinner so that when I come home feast on it and feed my hunger; bring me almost everyday to work without complaining though still sleepy; keep silent when I become a raging bull when irked by small things; and most of all, let me savor the wonderful love in his own little ways?

He may not be an Adonis, with a lean body, good-featured nose and lips… He may not be the exquisitely intelligent exec… He may not be the accomplished virtuoso… He may not be that egocentric gorgeous chap…

But he happens to be my other half, my well-being, my life…

In his special ways when almost everything is impossible because of poor health, he thrives… and makes me feel that everyday is worth living… though loads of disquiet tramples the peace…