This is just a series of photos in our high school reunion party. It was funny to see how everybody cooperated in the parlor games and solo performances even if it would mean showing a different side of themselves.
If you will be asked if you possess integrity, will you be confident to say YES?
It will surely make you think not only twice. After I read some articles the other night about this value, I was not as confident anymore. I realized that we are all guilty at some points in our lives not having integrity. I, for one, had lied (white and black lies) many times and in defense, it’s always because what the situations warranted. It’s always about justifying that what I did was just right because it was what I thought was best and easy way out of a circumstance.
According to Amy Rees, an author and a weekly contributor to Forbes and The Huffington Post, “Integrity is doing the right thing at all times and in all circumstances whether or not anyone is watching.”
That line alone surely will make most of us feel uncomfortable. Why would we not if some of us renders overtime work without an output defending the deed as right because the pay is low? Why would we not if the janitor, for example, wanders about or do other things not related to his work, because ‘everybody is doing it’? Why would we not if the leadman spends much time on his cellular phone because he believes his efforts are not recognized? Why would we not if a manager thinks he is the most intelligent species in the organization that is why the high pay but is not effective? Why would we not if an officer gets a kickback from purchases because he thinks he deserves it for the long tenure he has in the company? I am sure there are lots of situations we can talk about that that line from Ms. Rees will grate on our person.
Being able to realize that we have not practiced integrity at some points in our lives and desire to develop ourselves is a different thing though. It is an act of integrity, too, to admit that we failed before to develop this core value as an individual, as an employee, as a friend, as a boss, etc., and to desire to change especially if it’s not late to do it.
We cannot just say that we are a people of integrity or moral uprightness without others be the ones telling us that we are such people. It is like faith without actions. Faith is dead without walking the talk, or professing it but not doing the truthful and honest things we must do in any situation.
Quoting more from Amy Rees, “If we surround ourselves with people who are dishonest and willing to cut courses to get ahead, then we’ll surely find ourselves following a pattern of first enduring this behavior, then accepting their behavior, and finally adopting their behavior.”
The UB suggestion is about cool facts in history. I am a Filipino and I wanted to share this post about six (6) surprising Filipino historical facts.
The fact that affected me most among the six is the nuclear bomb that fell into the Philippine Sea and it’s still missing. It was only in the 1980s when it was revealed that the Mk. 43 free-fall bomb was lost.
It makes me feel scared, even now, that the weapon which is at least a megaton’s worth of nuclear explosive was never found. Questions popped into my mind like – How come it is missing? What if it’s there submerged in the Philippine seabed waiting to explode? What is the chance that it will be triggered to explode? To what extent will the damage caused by explosion spread?
It’s nice to learn about other quote web sites aside from Brainyquotes which I frequent. I love quotes. They have inspired me in many ways. One of my favorites are life quotes. Here are samples from Quotelicious.com:
A great attitude becomes a great day which becomes a great month which becomes a great year which becomes a great life.
— Mandy Hale
MY TAKE: I realized that a great life does not equate to a life with lots of money only. A lot of rich people are not happy. It is how a life is well-lived by having that attitude of positivity and hope.
Everyone should smile. Life really isn’t that serious. We make it hard. The sun rises. The sun sets. We just tend to complicate the process.
MY TAKE: I really cannot understand why people choose to be indifferent which is mostly a result of jealousy or insecurity. Instead of finding a good reason to smile by doing something productive for their lives, they focus on others who have nicer clothes, or shoes, better paying jobs, or big houses, and fault-find to find satisfaction for themselves. Utterly ridiculous and pitiful.
Your life is your message to the world. Make sure it is inspiring. – Unknown
MY TAKE : One commenter thought that inspiration we get from disability is a kind of objectification. I disagree. It is rather a strong motivational thing to show the world that despite the disability, life goes on. My husband is a physically challenged man. After the stroke, the situation changed. He had to stay at home with the kids (with my MIL, too) and I had to go to work. He raised pigs to augment the family expenses. This he did while taking care of the children. I took part of the ‘taking care’ after an 8-hour office work. There were a lot of stories to tell. To wrap it up, he was such an inspiration that was also an example not to give up despite the trials.
I am sure everyone of us have our favorite food SPOTS that become our favorite for all season. Banapple is a bakery and cafe that serves not only pies, cakes and desserts but also good food for breakfast, lunch or dinner.
Here are some of our favorites (You can click the thumbnails for a larger view):
This TED talk by model Cameron Russell is fearless indeed.
“I won a genetic lottery and I’m the recipient of a legacy.” This bold statement defines how the advertising business and most of the world see beauty.
“The thing… that I have never said on camera is that I am insecure. And I am insecure because I have to think about what I look like everyday.” Who would have thought that such a young and beautiful lady would be insecure? But she is.
Here is the video you all will admire. It is not easy to admit the superficiality of it all. While most young girls are embarrassed about their bodies and how they look, here is a model saying she is insecure and unhappy and I think it is because she is not that person we see in Vogue, or any other magazine, but someone who is like most of us, afraid, and unsure.
This is the LANDSCAPE that I would want to see – full of more greens. It soothes the eyes and gives that feeling of peace. This may not be that extensive but I believe that the nearer the greens, the more you gain from the experience.