There are girlfriends I know who give eyeteeth to men who have muscles. They drool just seeing the muscles. In truth, there are really men who have genes that do not need testosterone boosters that work the muscles into perfection.
But muscles are not the totality of men. Muscles do not say that the man is a man. Six-packed abs do not tell about a man. Some men hide behind these abs. They camouflage to tell everybody that they are men.
I do not have anything against men who are not really men. It is the pretense of some that smells. For whatever reason that they have, it stinks to the high heavens.