On of those lunch times, me and some friends were talking about blessings. I mentioned that I sometimes get irked listening to other people talking about ‘blessings’. It seems that they are connecting ‘blessings’ to monetary gain they are receiving or equate them always to money received.
One of the friends remarked, “Isn’t it that when you say blessing, you cannot quantify it because it is something that is extraordinary and almost unexplainable circumstance in one’s life?” I said, maybe, but people can be considered ‘blessings’, too.
In your own opinion, and belief, probably, what is a blessing to you?
This is from a discussion board I joined before where I am not active anymore. The comments below were also from those people in that discussion board.
Dear Ms Bingskee I am quite simple on this one. I always take anything positive for me as a blessing. Even if you typed out your response using – dear sid – anywhere on it, it is a blessing for me. I feel that way because I know that in today’s world people are more reserved and more unhappy – if you could write dear thesids or dear sid or even dear friend, I know it wouldnt have been if you werent blessing me (and I dont really need or start thing what goes on into the responders mind when s/he writes this dear to me, it can be anything, but I should see only the positive).
Normally many attach blessings with Lord, God or even religion – I too am similar but the difference is that I believe that everyone around has some of God or Lord in himself/herself and hence I take anything (like the dear) as a blessing for me
Wow, I have to admit that I’ve never taken the time to come up with my own definition of what a blessing is for me. However, I can say that the majority of the things in my life that I see as blessing are not those things which boil down to monetary gain. Instead, I tend to think that most of the blessings that I have in my life are actually the positive relationships that I have in my life. I consider my greatest blessings to be my children, my husband and my great relationship with my family.
As you have said, blessing is not limited to monetary gain. Everything around us could be considered as blessings. Our parents, our friends, our lives, our homes, our financial capability, our senses, our children.. Everything we had is a blessings. Even our problems can be considered as blessings. How? If we have problems, we are being tested and we are being strengthen. Problems are like fire molds the gold to become a beautiful jewelry. So for me, problems can also be considered as a blessing.
From sheila 2666
I am an addict in recovery. I have been clean and sober for 8 years now, I get to go to work every day, I have some great friends and a solid support system in place. I share what I have, to keep what I have gained. I consider those blessings. I meet wonderful people, share ideas and have come to see things bigger than myself, my kids, my husband, my beautiful life. Those are the blessings I am greatful for every day of my life.I have a life because I was able to forgive myself and move forward. JMHO. thanks
thank you for sharing your story. reading it is a blessing.
Blessing are things/events/foods that you received everyday, that was meant to me.
The mere fact that i’ve opened my eyes to a new day, i have something to eat for breakfast, i have a family to take care of, i have a work to go to, i have workmates who help me get thru my day, i have pocket money to buy just enough veggies to cook for dinner, i have a home to get to after a long day, i have a bed to sleep on… the list goes on… Those are blessings for me. 🙂
For me blessing is a miracle happens when u in a problem , life which i lie, moments i enjoy-whatever its small or big.Happy when see the beauty of nature,listen beautiful music,enjoy a sweet moment, that is blessing fr me
For me a blessing can be something that really makes me happy, understand something that I need to, make others happy,etc. I am a happy person at the moment and I consider it a blessing.
Blessings are not just about money. For me, blessing is like what happened to us now. We had given another life.. We can still see the beauty of the world, we still enjoying, having fun and we still feel love and satisfaction that everyone desires..
I thanks God for all my blessings received all day long. For me blessing is from the time I wake up, I still have breath and the strength to do all works that have to be done, blessings for having good health, having a good family and lots of friends. Even problems that I encountered, I received it as blessing for me to let me see how lucky and blessed I am. For me, we are all blessed.
hello bingskee, i believe that blessings come into different forms and packages. It doesn’t necessarily have to be in the form of money nor is it quantifiable. I personally define blessing as anything around us that has an ability to lift our spirits, gives as happiness, and makes a difference in our lives.
Hello. I can say with certainty that to me, blessings, MY blessings, are my family. I was going to put “my belief in God” first, but since that goes without saying than I go with the next best thing: my family 🙂 They’re everything to me, and my pillar of strength, closest confidants.
I believe people, experiences, and yes money are all blessings. I believe people and experiences are greater blessings though.
well I think receiving money is not just blessing, we also have actions why we have this. And for me blessing is something from within, receive from the heart that something you can feel your blessed, no worries and you know God love you and take good care for you. 🙂
I believe that blessing is having good friends, good family, good life partner and more than that the blessing of having the breath of life everyday when i wake up. Monetary gains is a blessing also but with it you must not forget the other blessings. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
From Sharon Lopez
Hi bing! I can consider everything from the time I wake up in the morning, up to the time I sleep at night as blessings in my life. Have a nice day!
For me it’s not limited to monetary gains but also for all good things I have. Everything good without exception is the blessing for me. And we can think we have much more blessings when we focus on the good things rather than the bad things happened in our life. And happy for what I have and what I am.